Learning to Love Myself, Even When It Hurts

I guess there won’t be a kiss for me today 😥💔, and while I try to hold back the sadness, it’s hard not to feel the sting of that reality. There’s a voice in my head that whispers that maybe I’m not worthy of affection because I’m not perfect.

Maybe I’m too flawed, too broken, or too different from the ideal I imagine. It’s easy to believe that if I’m not flawless, then I don’t deserve love. But deep down, I’m reminding myself that I don’t need to be perfect to be deserving of love and connection.

Still, it’s difficult to shake that feeling of inadequacy. There’s a certain pain in thinking that love should be earned only through perfection, and when I feel like I don’t measure up, it’s hard not to feel left out or overlooked.

The hurt is real, and I can’t always push it aside. But I’m trying—trying to remind myself that love isn’t about being perfect. Love is about acceptance, kindness, and the raw, unfiltered moments where we allow ourselves to truly be seen, flaws and all. 💖

Even though I might feel hurt and not quite enough at times, I know that I am worthy of love. I am learning that true love is not conditional on perfection—it’s built on the understanding that we are all imperfect, and that’s okay. 💔😔 While it still hurts a little, I am gradually accepting that love isn’t about the image I try to create for others or about meeting some unrealistic standard. It’s about embracing who I am, flaws and all, and knowing that I am enough just as I am.

It’s not always easy, and I won’t pretend it doesn’t hurt at times. But each day, I’m growing stronger in my belief that self-love is the foundation of everything. I don’t need to be perfect to deserve love, and I’m beginning to realize that the love I need most begins within myself. And even on days when it’s hard, I’m learning to remind myself that I am worthy, even without the kiss. 💖